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The key is to be truthful without being overly honest. Like leather pants, deals with the devil, and Mini Coopers, relationships are incredibly tricky to get out of. Mostly, that’s because ending a relationship sucks and there’s no good time or way to do it. Trying to plan how to break up with someone without hurting them is like scheming about how to best drop a grand piano on someone’s foot. On top of that, while society has a whole built-in sympathy mechanism for people who have been broken up with, we quickly forget about the person who had to do the dumping, which usually takes a lot of courage and self-inflicts a lot of pain. No one comes over with ice cream because you dumped someone. No one expects you to be locked in the supply closet at work crying again because you realize it’s not working out with your partner. It’s a lonely, isolating act, and you’re the
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