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📢  文末扫码进裙，免费领取双语精读版 The Number-One Problem with Being Single What to do when singlehood reminds you you're no one's number-one. Psychology Today Single  Oct 26, 2024 | 1147 words | ★★★ ☆ ☆ One day a single friend posted the following on social media: "I want to be someone's number one." She wasn't campaigning to be ranked number one on the music charts, or in tennis, or the social media platform's "What's Trending" list. No, this was about her feeling that she was no one's number-one priority. Based on the chorus of responses, she wasn't the only one to feel that way.  The feeling isn't necessarily the same as feeling or being alone. My friend seemed to have many people around her, including friends, family, and work colleagues. However, while friends and such can care about you, ultimately they may have others ranking higher on their priority list than you.—their spouses, partners, or significant others. So might their kids if they h ………………………………