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人与人之间的 许多冲突, 都来自于对彼此动机的误解。 我们的所作所言, 其实都有自己的理由, 如果能试着设身处地的了解他人的理由, 也许冲突就不会发生了。 即使冲突真的发生了, 如果我们可以深呼吸一下, 以开放的心胸仔细倾听, 并处以一种既无"赢家" 也无"输家"的皆大欢喜方式, 也有利于消弭彼此的分歧。 --- 加措活佛 Conflict arises when peoplemisunderstand each other’s motives. Each person has reasons for his or heractions and words, and if we can put ourselves in other’s shoes to understandthose reasons, conflict can sometimes be avoided. Even if conflict arises, ifwe breathe deeply, open our minds and listen carefully, and not have a“winner/loser” mentality, this will help to put an end to our differences. 有缘请加我公众微信 长按上图二维码即可添加
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